dissing, what's your reaction?

when a friend of yours tries to diss you, how do you react?? what about if a person who is not your friend tries to diss you?

i don't know if i'm right or not, but violence seems to work. especially bad words, bad words have an effect on these persons, they will get intimidated if you attack them with enough credibility.

as i've found out, people including your friends, want you to be a certain way, if in case you are different from them they won't like it. i say fuck that, i'll be however the fuck i want. the popular thing in school nowadays is dissing, friends diss each other, when someone disses me "friendly" i don't take it like that, i fuckin hate that. I don't find that shite funny most of the time. dissing is such a popular past time because there isn't really anything else to do, school get repetitive and boring, i wish school could be more get to the point type shite. so kids nowadays diss, fight, get drunk, go dance in discoteques and get drunk and they try to satisfy their sexual impulses, and finally they try to make their supposed elitist positions to be known to every single person.. as you can see , all this is really fucked up, i realized how to fight this "system", you can't go AROUND it, but fight THROUGH it, yeah, it may seem harder, but in the end it will prove more beneficial.

[Lord_Data]

foul language is not violent...i suggest using a lead pipe...but before you do taht read my signature

[Paprika]

I agree with you anonymouzo, I've seen that no matter what you say to some people if its not a diss it won't shut them up, ony my bus on the way home the kids in the back of the bus be 'gettin on' each other so bad they end up talking about eachother's mothers, father and alike. I can understand how its entertaining, as its just playing around- nothing serious but when people start fucking with me when I'm depresed they just start wars and conflicts. I run into some of the most fucked up problems everyday, for various reasons they come up from my own doing, but anyway the moral of what I'm saying is that you should learn not partcipate in their antics and keep on track, I too wish school was stright to the point, but nooooo, they gotta play ding dong ditch... what grade are you in? I'm in the 10th.

[eiraena]

hmmm...well, i see here everyone is leaning towards beating the fuck out of people who piss you off. i cant say i usually do anything different, but you dont want to get yourself in trouble, then they'll start suspending you for just swearing once you're on someone shit list. when i was in junior high, every treated my like shit, and my mum would pack me these cold lunches with soda or juice cans in them, and i'd just beat the hell out of the jocks with my lunch box and no one would pick on me anymore. now i find it more frusturating to get into bitch fights with people because they are so stupid they dont understand my answers and insults. violence often leads to worse results, but whatver works for you.

[TheNinja]

dissing eh? yea people at my school do that. hey ya know what i learned that got me out of depression? dont care, be who you are, but dont be violent, violance may look like the answer, but it just gets the shit piled higher. swearing can be a good vent, but not all the time. personally (and i dont wanna put this on everyone) i found Jesus to help me, im working through alot of crap, mainly my swearing/problem/habit that i have. but before Jesus, there was 'not caring'. i used to be like "i cant act like that people will think im stupid", but now im just like "screw, im gonna do what ever i want!" so i dressed up in a wetsuit and a life vest and went to the mall! and then told everyone that it was raining too hard. i got alot of laughs, and alot of people telling me im stupid, and alot of people saying i was unique (in that retarded/special ed class way). but it was all good, i had fun yo!

try it, go have fun, be a retard, have fun.

[Paprika]

Intresting Outlook Ninja, its just the fact that i kinda hate god for making my life what it is. It not just the depression or social anxiety but my life as A whole is a pile of shit, I was born into it and I can't get out until I finish high school. People know about that "I don't give a fuck what people say" attitude, it really dose encourage you to be yourself but for me making the situation worse can have very server effects, negitive effects

[eiraena]

oh, so i'm not the only one! :) sometimes me and my friends dress up in antique prom dresses and go to burger king on like a thursday night, for no particular reason, and make up wierd stories to explain it to people.

[Paprika]

huh? Oh gosh, I don't even have good friends that I can do that type of stuff with anymore... :(

i'm not encouraging anyone to actually become violent, i was just saying that thaat shite sometimes works,

The thing to remember that people who have a go at you are usually insecure about themselves and thir insignificant lives. They slag people off to make themselves feel better.

From personal experience I keep well away from these types of people and stick to people I know and would trust with my life (not many of them)

[Troz]

hm.. dissing. Most of the time, I just agree... heck i can't argue w/ the truth... at least that's my outlook... i mean, if i'm in a good mood, and it was meant maliciously, i just throw wit in whoever's face that said it. Often, they don't get what i said, but everyone else does. Or if they do get it, they shut up, b/c they know they've been shut down.
Strangly enough i'm not the kind of person that's called a bitch or whore or anything else like that... I've never been mean or stupid enough up until this year.. or i have, and i've been in private christian schools... But NEways.. when someone says in the same sentence that they put all their love into you, and then that you're a "Really low bitch" and then insults one of the most important ppl to you, it hurts.... But again, i don't argue. If they say it, it's probably true. at least about me. My reaction is always more violent if someone tries to insult my friends. Then, if i can I'll hurt you.

~Troz*

[Paprika]

True, very deep Troz

[Troz]

deeps? Why thank you...

~Troz*

[Paprika]

well you are most welcome :)