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Grifter_4
10-09-2003, 05:51 PM
hey guys, i was just wondering what pareitentar did to get banned...personally i feel she offers a lot of great advice and that banning her was a mistake, but then again i don't know the details. 'Rika, what happened? :( hit me up ok?

-Grifter_4
Becca
10-09-2003, 06:13 PM
Pareitentar got banned?! What happened? She was always so lovely.
Valaire
10-09-2003, 06:27 PM
I dont know but I am very unhappy she was always the first person to respond always with good advice, and kindness to everyone why must bad things happen to good people, RISE UP we must get her back. unless this is a mistake and then I will have to apoligize. It better be or else I will be pissed
Steppenwolf
10-09-2003, 07:27 PM
What the heck? I think we need some details here....

Steppenwolf.
distanced
10-09-2003, 09:51 PM
omg she was so sweet to me wat could have happened to ban her??? wow if thats true and unless its serious there goes MY opinion of this place....
Grifter_4
10-09-2003, 10:23 PM
Woah, guys hold on, i didn't want to make anyone angry or spiteful, i was just wondering. I mean yea it sux a lot, but i think we need to hear the story first. And i mean come on, don't give up on this site just because of one mistake (if it even was a mistake)....i think we just need the details.

-Grifter_4
Mandie
10-09-2003, 10:50 PM
I'll miss her.
notquitesure
10-09-2003, 11:48 PM
hey i talked to ally early today and she didnt say anything about being banned...ill find out from her either tonight or tomorrow and let you all know
Grifter_4
10-09-2003, 11:52 PM
Thanks Sarah.

-Grifter_4
De-pressed
10-09-2003, 11:56 PM
Like Grifter said everyone should wait until Paprika tells you all what happened exactly. I have talked to both Paprika and Allison and I can tell you that her getting banned was no accident or mistake. I don't know the exact details so I will not answer any questions about why.
Paprika
10-10-2003, 12:00 AM
Aww man, sorry guys I didn't even notice this topic. I haven't been around in the forums lately.

1. Pareitentar broke a rule concerning the harrasment of other members. She sent a vulger and absolutely horrible email to a fellow member here on the board who is suicidal. Not only did it break board rules it could have pushed this member over the edge. Luckily the contacted me and forwarded the email as evidence. After I read what she had sent I asked her to apologize, she refused, and I had no other choice but to ban her.
I'm really sorry, I didn't mean to cause such a disturbance, but what she done to this person was wrong and it violated the rules. I think that Pareitentar just lost it and went on a rampage to let off some steam, but in the process she hurt someone really bad and broke the board rules. I hope you all understand.

2. This topic is in the wrong forum. I'm moving it with a redirection in the old spot.
Grifter_4
10-10-2003, 12:06 AM
O wow, that doesn't sound like her at all, but who am i to judge, thanx for the info 'rika, though it does suck that she won't be her any more...however i guess that she did kinda cross a line. O well, i guess we'll just deal w/ her not being here, the rest of us can step it up a bit in the advice dept.

-Grifter_4
Steppenwolf
10-10-2003, 12:09 AM
Ahh man. That sucks. I can't belive she did that. Dang.

Steppenwolf.
Paprika
10-10-2003, 12:11 AM
Well before people start tring to walk off from the site, I would like you guys to know that developments are comming in. Just chill I'll keep you updated
Grifter_4
10-10-2003, 12:13 AM
well i for one, am not leaving, and i don't think anyone else should either. Plus, developments YAY!! mysterious and intriguing :wink:

-Grifter_4
Mandie
10-10-2003, 12:15 AM
I think that Pareitentar just lost it and went on a rampage to let off some steam, but in the process she hurt someone really bad and broke the board rules. I hope you all understand.
Absolutely understandable.
Enemy Of Reality
10-10-2003, 12:17 AM
it sucks so much she was banned :(:(:( but yea, if she really did that, then you are right..
is that a permanent ban or temporary ban? coz i guess we all miss her.. :(
Paprika
10-10-2003, 12:29 AM
It's permanent. If she makes a sincere apology that is accepted by the member she offeneded then I'll make it a temporary ban.

ALSO:
The development I mentioned earlier now are over. Nothing has changed. I was just recieving rumors.
Steppenwolf
10-10-2003, 12:37 AM
Woo Hoo! Developments!
De-pressed
10-10-2003, 12:41 AM
actually there were no developments.
Steppenwolf
10-10-2003, 02:46 AM
Drat......
Becca
10-10-2003, 02:52 AM
That's really sad, i'm gonna miss her.
Valaire
10-10-2003, 06:08 AM
you know guys if you all feel this way how many of you sent her emails, how many of you actually feel this way because I for one am at least going to try to ask her to come back please help me, because we are only as strong together as we are weak alone
De-pressed
10-10-2003, 12:43 PM
I sent her an email the second I saw that she was banned. I also talked to Paprika. From what she said when she replyed to my email I don't think she wants to come back.
Valaire
10-10-2003, 03:29 PM
Im glad you did De-pressed and it seems like she does not want to either all though with good reason, and I can see how paprikas hands were tied when he could not see the other one.
notquitesure
10-10-2003, 08:24 PM
You guys may not know this...but ally sent me an email about the whole thing..the only reason she sent that email was because the one she got was far worse wit htons of insults but she couldnt report it because it was outside of tm...shes really sorry she cant be here to help all of you and shes thinking about apologizing so she can come back and help all of us...shes not a bad person at all so please dont loose any respect for her because she is sweet and i know she will do the right thing..if you want to know more about it write back to me ...
Paprika
10-10-2003, 08:59 PM
she claimed that but I still would have taken action against the other member had pareitentar saved the email or atleast not deleted it.
Valaire
10-10-2003, 09:04 PM
Paprika I respect your decision your hands were tied but please allow her to have the chance to come back.
notquitesure
10-11-2003, 03:54 PM
I talked to ally again and she is waiting for the members email address so that she can make a sincere apolpogy...she is willing to now because she wants to come aback and help all of us...she really misses everyone and she hopes that the other member will except her apology..
Paprika
10-11-2003, 04:26 PM
she is waiting for the members email address
She isn't going to be mailing anymore members on this board. The only way to apologize is through me. Let her know that.
biffy
10-11-2003, 05:49 PM
aawww i wish she wasnt banned. now i cant talk to her. shes never on aol anymore :barf: this isnt fair. i know she did something wrong, and believe me, i didnt think she'd ever say anything like that to anyone. but she's got alot of problems. and i think maybe that was one of the causes. maybe she just wanted to hurt someone else, as the way shes been treated. as to like to get back at someone. maybe im just jibbin now... i dont know. but i want her back *cries*
Paprika
10-11-2003, 06:21 PM
We all want her back... including me ofcourse.
Kagetsu
10-11-2003, 06:43 PM
*cries* Parietentar? That doesn't sound like her! She was always so sweet and nice and... *sobs* She was the very first person I met on TM. But I do understand that she broke a rule, and I will miss her.
Paprika
10-12-2003, 03:18 AM
She apologized and the ban has been lifted.
Enemy Of Reality
10-12-2003, 03:33 AM
ooh :):):):) yayay awesome
De-pressed
10-12-2003, 03:33 AM
Yay, shes back.
Becca
10-12-2003, 05:25 AM
Yay!!!! that's so cool
Valaire
10-12-2003, 09:40 AM
:60: Happy Days Are Here Again! :60:
Pareitentar
10-12-2003, 11:12 AM
Hi everybody!! ::waves:: and hello to all the new members! lol, thanks guys for the concern and all the compliments!

Hmm...very few people know what actually happened...I'm not a maniac who went on a rampage...I wasnt overly angry and trying to hurt somebody either. So I'd really appreciate it if we could just forget about this...what happened, happened, and I'm back now.
Thanks again! :hug:
Enemy Of Reality
10-12-2003, 12:12 PM
yay! welcome back :) we surely missed ya
Pareitentar
10-12-2003, 12:16 PM
Thanks! I know I was only away for a few days, but it felt like forever!
Grifter_4
10-12-2003, 01:27 PM
Yay!!! Welcome Back. :hug:

-Grifter_4
twinklet
10-12-2003, 02:09 PM
that's not her at all! i always will remember her as a sweetie pie.
Kagetsu
10-12-2003, 03:03 PM
oh, yay! *runs up and hugs Allison* Welcome back!!!!
Pareitentar
10-12-2003, 03:11 PM
lol :041: thanks everybody!
biffy
10-12-2003, 08:26 PM
*jumps around* missed you loads ally baby! so glad ur back *huggleS* xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
notquitesure
10-12-2003, 09:51 PM
ally im glad your back missed ya
Mandie
10-12-2003, 10:47 PM
Welcome back! I missed ya!
Pareitentar
10-12-2003, 10:49 PM
I missed you guys too! :hug:
AngelOnAcid
10-12-2003, 10:52 PM
Yay!!! welcome back
distanced
10-13-2003, 07:48 PM
ur bak!! wooohoo! (wow most excited ive been in days hehe) ya well anyway missed u!
Pareitentar
10-13-2003, 08:00 PM
:laugh: thanks! I missed you too!
Steppenwolf
10-14-2003, 01:23 AM
Well hello there Madam. Welcome. And a big HOO RAH for ya returnin to us mutants. ::Looks round:: To me The Mutant. ::BOWS DOWN::

Steppenwolf...(The Mutant)